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Unlock Your Power: A Sensual Exploration of Conscious Kink
Dec
8
1:00 PM13:00

Unlock Your Power: A Sensual Exploration of Conscious Kink

LIMITED TICKETS!!!

         

Are you ready to explore your sensuality and power in a safe, supportive, and playful environment?

We’re inviting women, non-binary individuals, and couples to join us for a unique journey into the world of Conscious Kink—a space to discover and connect with your inner energy, explore your boundaries, and enhance intimacy with yourself and others.

This is not just about ropes and toys—it's about stepping into your power and learning to express it in a conscious, compassionate, and playful way. Through a combination of breathwork, guided meditation, engaging exercises, and fun games, you’ll explore the two powerful polarities within the world of Kink and BDSM: Submission (Follower) and Dominance (Leader).

Whether you’re a seasoned practitioner or a curious newbie, this workshop will invite you to step outside of your comfort zone and dive into a more embodied, empowered experience of sensuality and connection.

What to Expect:

💖 Welcome & Introduction
We’ll start by setting the tone with an invitation to open your heart and senses, grounding ourselves together for the journey ahead.

🌱 Cacao Ceremony
Sip on sacred cacao as we awaken our bodies and minds to the possibilities of connection, pleasure, and exploration.

🎭 Demystifying Kink & BDSM
No judgment, no shame—just curiosity and exploration. Let’s break down myths and misconceptions and talk openly about the power dynamics that exist in conscious kink play.

🛑 Consent & Boundaries
You’ll learn how to navigate your Sacred “No” and give your Full Body Yes! We’ll explore how to create safety and trust, essential for deepening intimacy in any relationship—whether that’s with yourself or with others.

🌪 Dance Between the Elements
A playful and empowering game to help you feel into the dynamics of Dominance and Submission. It’s not about power for power’s sake—it’s about honoring your energy and how it flows in the space between us.

🧘‍♀️ Aftercare & Integration
We’ll close with practices to regulate the nervous system and gently return to your center, ensuring you leave feeling grounded, nourished, and fully integrated.

Soft Drinks and Snacks
Because good vibes deserve a little nourishment. Let’s wind down together and share in a light-hearted, relaxed space.


Spaces are limited! Reserve your spot today. 🙌

Energy Exchange: Note all tickets has payment plan options via Klarna. If this is still not accessible to you and you would like a sponsored space please email Giap@Tongsayor.com.

Super Early Birds (Solo): £80.00 (limited tickets)

General (Solo): £111

Couple Ticket: £200 (LIMTED)

 

 

Why You Should Join:

  • Explore your sensuality in a safe, inclusive, and playful way

  • Build deeper intimacy and trust with yourself or your partner

  • Learn how to express your desires and boundaries with confidence

  • Engage in fun, embodied practices that honor your energy and power

  • Get the chance to play with tools, toys, and other fun elements of conscious kink

Whether you want to deepen your connection with your partner or simply explore your own energy, this workshop is designed to be fun, liberating, and insightful. Come as you are, and let’s explore the art of conscious kink together. 💫

 

What’s involved:                       

  • Cacao Ceremony

  • Tantric breathwork

  • Guided Meditation

  • Sharing Circle

  • Conscious K!nk games (non-sexual)

  • Education and exploration of toys, tools and equipment

  • Trauma informed aftercare exercises.

Note: This workshop is open to women, non-binary individuals, and couples of all levels of experience. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or just curious about exploring your sensuality in new ways, this is a welcoming space for all. Consent is key, and we’re here to ensure that everyone feels safe, comfortable, and empowered throughout the experience.

 

WANT MORE???

Join me in the most delicious Master Mind Day not to be missed!!

An invitation to join me for a day of Conscious K!nk exploration.

What our day could look like:

* Explore your most seductive self through awakening the senses of texture as we venture into some of the well known BDSM Clothing stores in London.

* Lunch at the most hedonistic boutique hotel in London

* Workshop | Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination

* Pre Party drinks & nibbles

* Entry to K!nk/BDSM Partyl

Email Giap@Tongsayor.com to get on the waiting list for the next date!

Energy Exchange £1000

(payment plan available via Klarna)

 
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Awakening the Dark Goddess (A conscious kink exploration)
Oct
5
11:00 AM11:00

Awakening the Dark Goddess (A conscious kink exploration)

Awakening the Dark Goddess

(A day retreat conscious kink education with exploration)

Calling in the wild woman who embrace

their shadows as much as their light

Invitation:

Awakening the Dark Goddess Day Retreat is dedicated to reclaiming the powerful feminine energy found within and surrounding us all, living your deepest truth and highest purpose. It is dedicated to empowering all beings on the path to sovereignty, awakening to your medicine and gifts, inspiring creativity and moving towards sacred unity in this world. We embrace all faces of the Divine Feminine here in the circle across all paths, ages and beliefs. Sit here around our fire and delve deep into the roots of Mother Earth, into ancient Moon Rituals, divine feminine practices, to the call of the wild and the rising Dark Goddess within.

Our Day Together: DRAFT

11:00 - 11:30 | Opening Ceremony & Cacao

11:15- 12:30 | Root Chakra and Power Dynamic

12:30 - 14:00 | Lunch (Veg)

14:00 - 14:30 | Sacral Chakra and Sensual Dance

14:30 - 15:30 | Solar Plexus Chakra and Bondage

15:30 - 16:30 | Heart Chakra and The Art of Submission

16:30 - 17:00 | Throat Chakra, Heart and Sacred “No”

17:00 - 18:00 | 3rd Eye Chakra awakening to Ride the energy of scenes

18:00 - 19:00 | Crown Chakra | Closing Circle Ceremony and Aftercare

What to expect:

A safe space to reclaim your power through conscious kink exploration and education.

Giap invites you to explore your shadows and the power of the Dark Goddesses allowing you to transmute heavy energies into powerful medicine.

Experience a powerful, transformational journey where we will explore 7 different Kinks in alignment with the main 7 Chakras. Combining explorative kink discussion with elemental healing that will shift your energy in the way that you can feel more balanced and in tune with yourself on all levels.

Who is this for:

Anyone who associates themselves as fem and curious about conscious kink in a safe trauma informed space. We will explore the possibility of using kink as a gateway to surrender deep into intimacy with self and a tool for self-discover and healing.

What’s included:

  • Cacao Ceremony

  • Guided meditation

  • Tantric Breathwork

  • Conscious Kink exploration in alignment with 7 main chakra’s

  • Veg Lunch, Snacks & Soft Drinks

  • Rituals

  • Group Healing

  • Somatic Sensual movement

  • 60min 1:1 Coaching with Giap via zoom withing 4 weeks after retreat as aftercare.

  • Q&A

Energy Exchange: Payment plan is provided via Klarna with 0% interest

Super Early Bird: £111

Early Bird: £333

Normal: £555

If you are a vulnerable person or facing financial difficulties who wish to participate on this course please email me to apply for sponsorship.

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Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination
Jul
28
12:00 PM12:00

Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination

LIMITED TICKETS!!!

Invitation:                     

An invitation for woman and non-binary people to explore their femineity through engaging conversations and embodied practices.

This workshop is intended for us to explore the two main power polarities within the K1nk and BDSM community “Submission (Bottom, Follower) and Dominant (Top, Lead).

Through various exercises you will connect with your own energy and create safety within the body using tantric breathwork and guided meditation. We will then explore Conscious K!nk through consensual fun games so assist you in embodying your power in either of the polarities as well as an opportunity to play with the tools & toys.

As always, we will close our sacred space with practices to regulate our nervous system, connect back to self to integrate all that we have learnt and experienced.

What our day could look like [DRAFT}

  • Welcome & Introduction

  • Open ceremony through awakening the senses and heart with Cacao

  • Demystify K!nk & BD$M

  • Buffet Lunch (veg)

  • Consent & Boundaries - Sacred “NO”

  • Dance between the Elements - A power dynamic

  • Aftercare - Safe 2B Soft

Where: Tongsayor HQ (Residential space)

When: Sunday 28th July 2024

Time: 12pm - 4pm

Energy Exchange: Note all tickets has payment plan options via Klarna. If this is still not accessible to you and you would like a sponsored space please email Giap@Tongsayor.com.

Early Birds: £88.00 (limited tickets)

Normal: £111.00

LIMITED SPACES!!!

 

 

Who is it for:                

Note this is a introduction to the energies of Submission & Domination with fun, consensual and non-sexual games. This workshop is suitable woman and non-binary people who is curious and looking to dip their toes into the world of Conscious K!nk.

 

What’s involved:                       

  • Cacao Ceremony

  • Tantric breathwork

  • Guided Meditation

  • Sharing Circle

  • Conscious K!nk games (non-sexual)

  • Education and exploration of toys, tools and equipment

  • Trauma informed aftercare exercises.

 

WANT MORE???

Join me in the most delicious Master Mind Day not to be missed!!

An invitation to join me for a day of Conscious K!nk exploration.

What our day could look like:

* Explore your most seductive self through awakening the senses of texture as we venture into some of the well known BDSM Clothing stores in London.

* Lunch at the most hedonistic boutique hotel in London

* Workshop | Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination

* Pre Party drinks & nibbles

* Entry to K!nk/BDSM Partyl

Email Giap@Tongsayor.com to get on the waiting list for the next date!

Energy Exchange £1000

(payment plan available via Klarna)

 
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Wilderness Festival - Togetherness at Cornbury Park, Oxfordshire
Aug
3
to Aug 6

Wilderness Festival - Togetherness at Cornbury Park, Oxfordshire

Join me in the Togetherness space at The Wilderness Festival where I will be running two workshop on Concious K!nk! This is a great opportunity to meet like hearted souls, let yourself run wild and free to explore, play, dance and so much more!

Cultivate more meaningful human connections

Exceptional experiences in human connection, from the social to the sensual to the soulful. Discover more of who you are in the Togetherness tent. Experience the aliveness and joy that comes with exploring relating, desires, and being more authentically you.

Some programming contains adult content - parental guidance advised.

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Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination
Jun
16
6:00 PM18:00

Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination

SOLD OUT!!!

Invitation:                     

An invitation for woman and non-binary people to explore their femineity through engaging conversations and embodied practices.

This workshop is intended for us to explore the two main power polarities within the K1nk and BDSM community “Submission (Bottom, Follower) and Dominant (Top, Lead).

Through various exercises you will connect with your own energy and create safety within the body using tantric breathwork and guided meditation. We will then explore Conscious K!nk through consensual fun games so assist you in embodying your power in either of the polarities as well as an opportunity to play with the tools, toys and equipment within our professional BDSM play space.

As always, we will close our sacred space with practices to regulate our nervous system, connect back to self to integrate all that we have learnt and experienced.

Where: Professional London Adult Play Space

When: Friday 16th June 2023

Time: 6pm - 8pm

Energy Exchange: Note all tickets has payment plan options via Klarna. If this is still not accessible to you and you would like a sponsored space please email Giap@Tongsayor.com.

Workshop Only: £111.00

Master Mind Day: £1000.00

LIMITED SPACES!!!

 

 

Who is it for:                

Note this is a introduction to the energies of Submission & Domination with fun, consensual and non-sexual games. This workshop is suitable woman and non-binary people who is curious and looking to dip their toes into the world of Conscious K!nk.

 

What’s involved:                       

  • Tantric breathwork

  • Guided Meditation

  • Sharing Circle

  • Conscious K!nk games (non-sexual)

  • London Private Playspace

  • Education and exploration of toys, tools and equipment within the playspace

  • Trauma informed aftercare exercises.

 

WANT MORE???

Join me in the most delicious Master Mind Day not to be missed!!

An invitation to join me for a day of Conscious K!nk exploration.

What our day could look like:

* Explore your most seductive self through awakening the senses of texture as we venture into some of the well known BDSM Clothing stores in London.

* Lunch at the most hedonistic boutique hotel in London

* Workshop | Power Play: The Energetics of Submission & Domination

* Pre Party drinks & nibbles

* Entry to Torture Garden June Ball

ONLY 2 SPACES LEFT!!!

Energy Exchange £1000

(payment plan available via Klarna)

 
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Master Class: Conscious KinkXmas Special
Dec
4
2:00 PM14:00

Master Class: Conscious KinkXmas Special

The Invitation:

It’s a Christmas special with the first Conscious Kink Master Class!! What a way to close the year on a new moon, giving yourself the gift of exploration in a safe, loving and impartial space.  There is something sacred about discovering yourself, parts of you that may have been dormant or lost. Life is an ongoing ceremony where exploration initiates a rite of passage for bodily surrender and natural healing. In this master class, I invite you to search within for your kinky fundamentals and desires or anything else waiting to be uncovered.

** This event is offered with limited in person spaces and live zoom access **



This master class is for those who are seeking to explore their kinks and fetishes beyond the whips and chains, to understand what it is needed to play safely while maximising pleasure alone or with others.

What’s involved:

1. Introduction to Conscious Kink

2. Set the scene

3. Top 3 Kinks & Chakra alignment

4. After care

What you need:

-          Comfortable clothing

-          Open heart

-          Journal (optional)


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 SOLD OUT!!!! Full Moon Guided Self Tying Exploration and Crystal Sound Bath Immersion
Oct
20
7:00 PM19:00

SOLD OUT!!!! Full Moon Guided Self Tying Exploration and Crystal Sound Bath Immersion

About this event:

We welcome you for an intimate evening to unravel, unwind, and explore your senses during this guided self-tying session whilst bathing in the healing vibrations of a crystal sound bowl immersion… all under the beautiful full moon. The full moon illuminates our skies as well as our inner world, bringing awareness to what we may be holding on to, and offering us the opportunity to release what is no longer serving us. We will dedicate time and space to work with this full moon offering, allowing the combination of Cacao, rope, sound healing and collective shared experience to guide us together in this release.

We look forward to meeting you and sharing space.

Warmest,
Sophia and Giap

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 Surrender to self with Rope Exploration & Crystal Sound Bath (WOMXN ONLY)
Sep
22
6:30 PM18:30

Surrender to self with Rope Exploration & Crystal Sound Bath (WOMXN ONLY)

This is a guided exploration of self with the physical and emotional hosted by Sophia Rose and Giap Tongsayor in an intimate private residential venue.

About this event

We invite you on a journey of surrendering to self, with guided self-tie lead by Sophia Rose and Crystal Sound bath by Giap Tongsayor.

Shibari is the Japanese practice of rope bondage literally meaning 'to tie'. It's origins draw on Hojujitsu and was used by Samuri as their technique to capture, restrain, and transport prisoners in a functional and aesthetic way. Though these techniques stopped being used, the imagery and aesthetic made its way into the underground BDSM and artistic culture of Japan. Shibari and images of people tied can be found in pornography, photos and paintings to this day.

Nowadays, enthusiasts of rope bondage and shibari draw on more traditional methods of tying as well as merging techniques with more western style bondage and imagery. Self-tying and tying for the purpose of conscious meditation is something which people are exploring more and more, rope bondage may always be intimate and personal, but it does not always have to be sexual.

Hosts

Giap Tongsayor is an intuitive energy healer and well-being coach. She works closely with sound through her team of crystal bowls, instruments and light language channelled through her voice. After her breakthrough whilst working in the financial sector due to high stress workload, she put herself on the path towards inner peace by studying various human behaviour and returning to her childhood teachings of spirituality with Buddhism and mindfulness.

Sophia is a facilitator and educator living in London, who has been involved in rope and BDSM since 2013. Sophia teaching is grounded in trauma aware practice, conscious communication, and curious exploration. Her interest and passion lie in what is benefit the surface… in many senses. Sophia enjoys thinking about how our bodies, minds, and ways of being become shaped consciously and unconsciously, and using physical tools and practices to explore these thoughts and ideas. Sophia believed there is something deeply powerful and healing about self-acknowledgement, self-accompaniment, and self-compassion, which she brings to her own practice.

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SURRENDER TO SELF WITH ROPE EXPLORATION & CRYSTAL SOUND BATH AT THE MANDRAK
Aug
25
7:00 PM19:00

SURRENDER TO SELF WITH ROPE EXPLORATION & CRYSTAL SOUND BATH AT THE MANDRAK

This is a guided exploration of self with the physical and emotional hosted by Sophia Rose and Giap Tongsayor in The Mandrake's Penthouse.

About this event

We invite you on a journey of surrendering to self, with guided self-tie lead by Sophia Rose and Crystal Sound bath by Giap Tongsayor.

Shibari is the Japanese practice of rope bondage literally meaning 'to tie'. It's origins draw on Hojujitsu and was used by Samuri as their technique to capture, restrain, and transport prisoners in a functional and aesthetic way. Though these techniques stopped being used, the imagery and aesthetic made its way into the underground BDSM and artistic culture of Japan. Shibari and images of people tied can be found in pornography, photos and paintings to this day.

Nowadays, enthusiasts of rope bondage and shibari draw on more traditional methods of tying as well as merging techniques with more western style bondage and imagery. Self-tying and tying for the purpose of conscious meditation is something which people are exploring more and more, rope bondage may always be intimate and personal, but it does not always have to be sexual.

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Hosts

Giap Tongsayor is an intuitive energy healer and well-being coach. She works closely with sound through her team of crystal bowls, instruments and light language channelled through her voice. After her breakthrough whilst working in the financial sector due to high stress workload, she put herself on the path towards inner peace by studying various human behaviour and returning to her childhood teachings of spirituality with Buddhism and mindfulness.

Sophia is a facilitator and educator living in London, who has been involved in rope and BDSM since 2013. Sophia teaching is grounded in trauma aware practice, conscious communication, and curious exploration. Her interest and passion lie in what is benefit the surface… in many senses. Sophia enjoys thinking about how our bodies, minds, and ways of being become shaped consciously and unconsciously, and using physical tools and practices to explore these thoughts and ideas. Sophia believed there is something deeply powerful and healing about self-acknowledgement, self-accompaniment, and self-compassion, which she brings to her own practice.



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